Sunday, June 10, 2018

Manners vs Etiquette


I’m often asked “What’s the difference between Manners and Etiquette.”

The English gentleman in the photo above, etiquette expert William Hanson, is showing the proper/improper way to hold a teacup.  

In the photo on the left, he’s demonstrating how to hold the teacup in the proper way.  A handled teacup is held with the index finger through the handle, the thumb just above it to support the grip, and the second finger below the handle for added security. The next two fingers follow the curve of the other fingers. 

In the photo on the right, Mr. Hanson is a demonstrating an etiquette faux pas by extending his pinky finger while holding the teacup.  It is considered an affection to raise the little finger, even slightly.  

Etiquette is the rules of correct and polite behavior in society (knowing how to treat people).  Etiquette is a French word from yesterday for today--"little sign."  In the 17th century, King Louis XIV had a magnificent chateau with beautiful gardens and parks all around it.  Often, when he hosted parties, people would walk all over the grass, pick the flowers, wade in the fountains, and leave litter behind.  They didn’t have formal gardens at their own houses and didn’t know how to behave.  The head gardener went to the King in great distress and asked what he could do to keep things nicer.  They decided to put up "little signs" all over the place:

~Keep on the paths

~Enjoy the flowers, but please don’t pick them

~Stay out of the fountains

~Please don’t litter

Etiquette still is simply a collection of "little signs" to guide us in all situations.

Good Manners are simply doing your best to follow the rules of etiquette (how your treat people).  So, you should never point someone out for commiting an etiquette faux pas.

Wednesday, June 6, 2018

My Kate Spade Handbag Collection

I can remember my first Kate Spade handbag.  It was the black nylon "Sam" bag.  I bought my first one at Goldsmith’s Department store at the Oak Court Mall in Memphis, Tennessee.  I thought it was so tres preppy chic!  I ended up purchasing this bag several times over the years...it was such a practical and ever-so classic bag.

Looking at this bag takes me back to the days I wouldn’t leave the house without it or my "Rouge Star" Chanel lipstick, a totally black outfit, and black Chanel flats.  

Fast forward and this is my humble KSNY cheerful bag collection today.  The "Quinn" bag is clearly my favorite--it’s the same shape as the "Sam" but in all the colors that speak to my matchy-matchy self.  It is such a timeless, classic-preppy bag and looks even cuter when adorned with a bag charm or scarf.  Definitely NOT the high-end KSNY bags, but they are the ones that I love.  The Metro totes and crossbodies are also my faves.

These two bags are on my "short list," because I need to complete my KSNY color wheel y’all. 

I mean, how adorable would the orange bag look with an orange clic-clac and tortoise shell accessories? On my list!




This lemon yellow bag would look adorable with kelly green pants and that cute lemon cardi from J Crew!



Okay, so I got off subject.  But don’t you think Kate Spade made adorable (and practical) handbags for all of us?  Whether you shop at Kate Spade signature stores or the KSNY outlet stores, you are sure to find that preppy chic item that will help to bring your colorful outfit together.

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Bye Bye Bikini - Miss America

I’m clutching my pearls today y’all.  Every since I was a little girl, I have looked forward to watching the Miss America Pageant every September.   Well, as of today, I’m done.  No more stalking the local and state pageants and trying to pick the winners.  All the fun is gone as far as I’m concerned.  What a great tradition it was!  

Today, the chair of the Board of Trustees of the MAO, Gretchen Carlson (a champion of the #metoo movement) announced that they will no longer judge contestants on physical appearance.  (Insert side-eye emoji here).  What in the world is wrong with being pretty and having a great figure?  There will be no more swimsuit competition.  No more evening gown competition either.  This is the most ridiculous thing ever!  They should just go all in and prohibit makeup as well.

 

The new Miss America will no longer be a Pageant, but a competition.  (Insert another side-eye emoji, please).  The "competition" will consist of talent and an interview with the judges.  Are you kidding me?  I’m pretty sure America already has more than enough talent competitions; i.e., American Idol, America’s Got Talent, The Voice, etc.  So Gretchen, you’re going to have to call your competition something else.  I mean, placing a crown on the head of a pant suited-up talent winner?  

Back in the day (before she sued Fox Network and made millions for a sexual harassment case), Ms. Carlson dressed for success on the set of Fox & Friends--practically wearing a one-piece bathing suit to report the news.  I’m not judging her...just pointing out that as a former Miss America, she used her looks in a big way.  

Remember that crown that was tarnished by former CEO Sam Haskell??  I predict it will be buried in the sand on the beach at Atlantic City by Ms. Carlson. 

Bye Bye Miss America.  At least I still have Miss USA!

Friday, March 30, 2018

Tybee Joy’s Beach House, Part 2

Today I am sharing photos of the “other side” of my friend Joy’s duplex.  As I said in my previous post, she completely redid the interior and turned it into a beach-chic home.  It’s a true fixer-upper, coastal style—full of turquoise, lime green, and coral colors.
I love the lime green sofa in the other side of the duplex, but be still my heart with this adorable turquoise sofa from Four Seasons.   Check out the precious Isaac Mizrahi tasseled flamingo pillow—a Homegoods find.  I want it!  The awesome art is by Bellamy and is the perfect choice for Joy’s decor.  The cabinet is from Ballard Designs.  Joy loves to shop Homegoods and TJ Maxx for lamps, pillows, side tables, vases, and other decorative pieces.



This Ballard Designs cabinet is perfect to store and display Joys’s turquoise and lime green dishes.

Another tasseled flamingo pillow.

Turquoise shuttered laundry room doors and another Bellamy print.

Eek, I’m obsessed with her oyster chandelier from Joss & Main.

Ikea kitchen cabinets and vinyl plank distressed, barn wood flooring.

The coffee station cabinet is from Ballard Designs.

More turquoise and lime green in the bedroom.  Joy installed shiplap throughout the cottage.

All the bedroom mirrors are from Ballard Designs.


Turquoise barn doors to the bathroom.  This is definitely “Fixer-Upper” coastal style.

The bathroom vanity is from Home Depot.

Of course Joy has a crystal chandelier and turquoise ruffles in the bathroom.  Prissy and colorful.

And now...the “Before Photos” of this side of the duplex.



Progressing to a new coastal look...

I hope y’all have enjoyed this tour!

Wednesday, March 28, 2018

Tybee Joy’s Beach House

My friend Joy recently purchased a duplex home on Tybee Island and completely redid the interior.  The “before” photos are at the end of this post—you cannot miss them!
Joy definitely loves living a colorful life which shows in her fashion and home decor.  Her cute house just makes me want to throw all my stuff out onto the curb and start over at the beach.
I’m totally in love with the green sofa and the darling flamingo on the coffee table

She better keep her eye on that cute little pink flamingo

Love the shells and starfish inside the colorful lantern

Oyster shells—I might do this for sure.

Love the chaise and the turquoise curtains—all the colors work together to deliver a coastal vibe.

Beach chic dining.

Only my friend Joy would have a turquoise barn door to her bathroom!  How cute is that?!

Joy loves her ruffles and I love them too...very colorful and prissy shower curtain!  The bath vanity is from Ikea.

She had all the kitchen cabinetry removed and installed Ikea cabinets.

You can see by the colors in the two bedrooms, Joy loves aqua and turquoise.


And now, the “Before” photos...

I hope you have enjoyed this tour of my friend’s home.  I will be back again later with more colorful photos from the other side of the duplex.  Thanks for visiting with me today.